3 Simple Steps to Turn Failure into Success

“Life is a process of becoming. A combination of states we have to go through. Where people fail is that they wish to elect a state and remain in it. This is a kind of death.” ~Anais Nin

I’ve always been an optimist, looking for the good in situations, even when they seem like the bleakest thing that could happen to me or the people around me.

But failure is a difficult one to turn on its ear.

You know when you don’t reach your goal. You know when you don’t get what you wanted.

Now I know the Rolling Stones sang “You can’t always get what you want…but if you try sometimes, you just might find, you get what you need.” And you know what? Those lines never sat well with me—to just sit and accept it.

So,I decided to find a new way to handle failure and to not only look at in a more optimistic way, but also find within it clues for my next move.

Here’s what I discovered:

Failure is a step toward your ultimate success. It’s a lesson. A challenge. A chance.

If you’re also dealing with failure, I recommend these three steps to turn it into success:

1. Reframe.

Try to look at the situation from different angles. You might ask your friends or family members to give you their honest feedback. Don’t just look for the type of support that will feed your ego; seek out perspectives from people who may not have been supportive during the process.

The important part of this step is to listen, take in the information, and then synthesize everything you know of your failure into a complete picture of what happened and why.

Try not to react emotionally to anything you discover or that people express to you.

2. Revise.

While you’re gaining a new perspective, be open to ideas for moving forward. People might offer them without you asking. Be prepared for that. Allow them to speak, thank them for their feedback, and move on.

When you feel like you have enough ideas to form a new plan of action, write them out on paper.

You may have to detach a little bit and pretend you’re looking at someone else’s situation, especially when people are offering varied suggestions.

For me, the word revise is a nice way to give myself permission to let go of this failure or path completely. Be willing to step back from anything that isn’t working in your life.

3. Refocus.

Once you have a new plan or at least an idea of how you want to proceed, the most crucial thing you can do to overcome feeling like a failure is to embrace your new path and focus.

As hard as it may be, you can’t spend any more time second guessing yourself or replaying the pity party of why it didn’t work “the other way.”

Now It’s Your Turn

Ask yourself if you’re holding onto a failure or disappointment in your life. Why are you hanging on to it?

Seek support from other people who know you and who you trust to give you gentle feedback—especially if the “failure” feels fresh, even after many years.

Decide how you will move forward and use what you’ve learned to create a new plan, to let the past go to make room in your life for your new dreams.

In this way, failures don’t feel so final; they feel like a twist on a path of exploration. That’s a path I’m happy to take.

Reframe. Refocus. Revise. Rinse. And repeat

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Learn on How to Create a Strong, Intimate Relationship...

''We come to love not by finding a perfect person, but by learning to see an imperfect person perfectly.'' Sam Keen

The romantic love fantasy is really a substitute for intimacy—real, connected, vulnerable intimacy.

So then, how do we make relationships work and stay happy?

We begin with the understanding of what pure love is, and then redefine and update the romantic fairytale into a healthier type of love.

Here are 10 ways to create true intimacy, find pure love, and be truly happy in your relationship:

1. Use relationships to teach you how to be whole within

Relationships aren’t about having another person complete you, but coming to the relationship whole and sharing your life interdependently. By letting go of the romantic ideal of merging and becoming “one,” you learn as Rainer Maria Rilke says, to love the distances in relationship as much as the togetherness.

2. See your partner for who he or she really is

The romantic tragedy occurs when you view the person you are in love with as a symbol of what they have come to represent, the idea of them. When you realize that more often than not you don’t really know your partner, you begin to discover who they are and how they change and evolve.

3.Be willing to learn from each other

The key is to see the other as a mirror and learn from the reflection how you can be a better person. When you feel upset, rather than blame your partner and point fingers, remain awake to what has yet to be healed in yourself.

4.Get comfortable being alone

In order to accept that love can’t rescue you from being alone, learn to spend time being with yourself. By feeling safe and secure to be on your own within the framework of relationship, you will feel more complete, happy, and whole.

5. Look closely at why a fight may begin

Some couples create separateness by fighting and then making up over and over again. This allows you to continue the romantic trance, creating drama and avoiding real intimacy. If you become aware of what you fear about intimacy, you’ll have a better sense of why you’re fighting—and likely will fight far less.

6.Own who you are

We generally grasp at romantic love because we’re yearning for something that is out of reach, something in another person that we don’t think we possess in ourselves. Unfortunately, when we finally get love, we discover that we didn’t get what we were looking for.

True love only exists by loving yourself first. You can only get from another person what you’re willing to give yourself.

7.Embrace ordinariness

After the fairy-dust start of a relationship ends, we discover ordinariness, and we often do everything we can to avoid it. The trick is to see that ordinariness can become the real “juice” of intimacy. The day-to-day loveliness of sharing life with a partner can, and does, become extraordinary.

8.Expand your heart

One thing that unites us is that we all long to be happy. This happiness usually includes the desire to be close to someone in a loving way. To create real intimacy, get in touch with the spaciousness of your heart and bring awareness to what is good within you.

It’s easier to recognize the good in your partner when you’re connected to the good in yourself.

9.Focus on giving love

Genuine happiness is not about feeling good about ourselves because other people love us; it’s more about how well we have loved ourselves and others. The unintentional outcome of loving others more deeply is that we are loved more deeply.

10.Let go of expectations

You may look to things such as romance and constant togetherness to fill a void in yourself. This will immediately cause suffering. If you unconsciously expect to receive love in certain ways to avoid giving that love to yourself, you will put your sense of security in someone else.

Draw upon your own inner-resources to offer love, attention, and nurturance to yourself when you need it. Then you can let love come to you instead of putting expectations on what it needs to look like.

These are only a few ways to explore real intimacy. How do you create a loving connection in your relationship?

Anything in can be possible if u decide.....A bad or strong relationship can only be created by you.

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Majoy.

Understand Your Anger

Anger and rage is an issue that many families must confront. As a matter of fact, anger is a normal human emotion. If it is not properly processed, it can lead to serious problems in family life. Deep seated anger leads to bitterness, and bitterness causes unresolved family problems. The Bible has good advice about anger. "Get rid of all bitterness, rage, anger, harsh words, and slander, as well as all types of malicious behaviour" (Ephesians 4:31, NLT).

Unresolved anger shows up in the family several ways. First, it leads to disputes and name calling. Things are said that are hurtful and cause division. Secondly, unresolved anger leads to withdrawal. A notable example is the elder brother in Luke 15. Instead of going to his father with the anger, he withdrew. Also, such anger causes tension in the whole family. The bitter person recruits other family members to be on his/her side. Finally, unresolved anger in the family may lead to domestic violence. A large percentage of homicides originate with family violence.

Anger should be recognized as a normal human emotion. We all have the capacity to be angry. However, we need to know how to process it. Withdrawal, name-calling or violence are unacceptable.

Anger becomes a sin when we lose self-control. Such anger can cause us to do and say things that we will regret in the future. When we lose self-control, we should call time-out. It's time for a cooling period.

Anger should be expressed in conversation. In a word, we need to talk it out. If we can't talk to the person who has wronged us, we should talk to another family member. We need someone to listen.

Anger tells us that we need reconciliation. We should pray that God will heal our broken relationships. We need to be reconciled with God and one another.

Anger should not be allowed to ferment into bitterness. It will sour our lives and affect all of our relationships. If we are unwilling to forgive, it even affects our relationship with God.

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Intimacy & Anger in Marriage

Anger is a normal part of an intimate relationship. We should not fear anger in marriage. However, we need to know how to process our anger without doing harm to the relationship. A man said to me that his wife and he had a rule in their marriage. They would never go to sleep when angry with each other. He did admit that they had stayed up sometimes until the early hours of the morning. That's a good rule. Anger will be a part of your marriage. The key is dealing with it to resolve it. It must not be ignored. The Bible teaches us, "Don't let the sun go down on your anger" (Ephesians 4:26, NLT). That is to say, deal with your anger now.

How should we deal with anger in marriage?

Anger is a healthy sign in a good marriage. That's right. There is a love/anger cycle in marriage. I taught a marriage conference on that subject years ago. The couples relaxed to know that anger in marriage is normal. A marriage without emotions, including anger, is a dead relationship, which becomes a silent divorce.

Learn how to resolve your anger. First of all, admit to your spouse that you are angry. It helps to say, "I'm angry." Admit the cause of your anger. Talk through your anger. Make sure that your mate understands your anger.

Don't bottle your anger. Pretending like you are not angry is not the solution. Be transparent with your spouse. To bottle anger causes it to explode in a non-direct manner. Then you are not discussing openly the real reason for the anger.

Let your spouse talk freely about the anger without interruption. Your mate needs to download the anger. There is time for questions and further discussion after the anger is expressed. Do not become defensive. Anger expressed freely leads to intimacy, because it is being transparent with your spouse. Transparency is the key to intimacy.

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Katika maisha kila mtu ana mtu wake wa mfano...wangu ni huyu natamani sana mafanikio yake ndio maana nafanya kazi kwa bidii nikitumia kila fursa ya maendeleo kuhakikisha nafanikiwa japo kumfikia sio kazi ndogo ila najipa moyo ipo cku ulimwengu mzima utajua Joyce Mahila ni nani Ee Mungu nisaidie......Je wewe msomaji wangu mtu wako wa mfano ni nani??? Tutumie email utuambie.

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Everyone in life have a role modal? who's yours??? 

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Ivory Coast Captain, Diddier Drogba To Build £3million Hospital In Abidjan

He may have lost a penalty kick that would have guaranteed his squad a victory in the just concluded African Cup Of  Nation (AFCON). But Ivory Coast Skipper and Chelsea  FC Striker Didier Drogba has other ways to put a smile on the faces of  his countrymen than giving them a 2 year reign as African Champions.

The soccer star has taken on a responsibility to bring quality healthcare to his countrymen as a contibutory of rebuilding his country after a post -election civil war that claimes over 3,000 lives.

Didier Drogba Foundation is set to build a world class hospital in the nation's capital worth 3million pounds.Drogba is using all the money generated from his commercial activities with sports apparel companies like Nike,Pepsi and Samsung to fund the project.

An annual charity ball of his foundation will hold in March at the Dorchester hotel in London where he hopes to get his friends to support his dream.

''I am already excited, I can't wait for this hospital to be built.But for the war it would have been open now.We are going to do it, we are going to work hard'', said the soccer star.

Good job Drogba, All the best.

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10 Ways To Control Your Anger - Professional Expert’s Advice....

Am really emotional and excitable person. I think that there are two types of anger: constructive anger and a destructive one. In order to understand the anger phenomenon I decided to investigate the nature of anger, reasons of its appearing, key factors and anger management.

 

What does it mean this anger? Anger is a strong indignation feeling of our emotional sphere that is attended by self-control losing. Anger is a signal of our state. Glands produce an array of hormones that have a great and deep effect on all our body. The main participants of this process are adrenaline and cortisol. They activate cardiovascular system and consequently all organs. Adrenalin causes fast heart beating, rising blood pressure. These rich oxygenated blood streams to the places are responsible for reaction. Thus some extra energy is released.

 

There are 4 basic ways of anger expressions:

 

1.  Straight and immediately (verbally or nonverbally) to show your anger. It gives an opportunity to free from the negative emotions.
2. To express anger in an indirect way. In this case usually suffer persons that are weaker, not dangerous and those ones who “come to hand”, usually they are our family and close relatives. Thus we hurt our dear ones. One of the best ways is to express your anger to the person who is the source of this very anger. If it is impossible- better find some compromise.
3. Restraining anger you “drive” it deep inside. So, negative emotions store will provoke a big stress sooner or later.
4. You may foresee situation of anger feeling, try not to expand this feeling but get to know the reason, understand and solve it. A Roman philosopher Seneca said: “When you are feeling of ascending “volcano”- stand still, not doing anything- not speaking, not moving.” 

 Anger is a normal and natural human feeling, especially nowadays as life is really fast and we have a huge amount of information to accumulate (in comparison with our previous generations). The range of anger is rather wide: from a slight annoyance to impetuous fury. Anger can be quick and long, lasting for years in form of bitterness, vengeance or hate. Anger can lead to health issues like depression, high blood pressure, heart diseases, stresses, alcohol dependence and obesity. If you are anger- express it. If you feel discomfort from these “negative splashes”- then we can give some techniques how to manage your emotional anger:

1. Take a deep and continuous breath. Count up to 50 or imagine your aggressor just naked, only in socks. This will help you to calm and smile.
2. Have a walk. Look at high sky. Continue to breathe deep and easily. So you appraise the situation and calm down.
3. Do some physical exercises. When you are angry- your body is very tensed and tough. If you stretch your muscles it will relax your body, as you will spill out all your negative energy into action. Your brains will get more oxygen and it assists to clear your thoughts.
4. Write down all your thoughts. Write down that you are mad and why. Avoid being rational, logical or laconic. Write on paper all you are feeling this moment. Try to write all in details. The function of this technique is to shift all your anger out of your head on paper.
5. Be grateful. Find someone to thank. Do you not forget about yourself. Thank that you have woken up today, thank that that the Sun is shining for you, that the sky is blue and the grass is green.
6. Prayer. Ask God to be with you during this anger moment and lead you.
7. Meditation. Close your eyes, look into solar plexus, and be all your anger, breathing deeply.
8. Change of places. Move yourself on your enemy’s place. And look at situation from his point of view. Better look at the situation from the ceiling. Focus on details, especially on funny and absurd ones. Strive to forgive your enemy as well as forgive truly yourself.
9. Go back to your childhood memories. Recollect state when you were angry. Hug this child and say: “All is ok. I am here. You are good child. I love you and I will not leave you.”
10. Your values. What is the most significant thing in your life? Who are the most important people in your life? What kind of person do you want to be? Think and accept that point that you are living your life, and you are living your values.

There is a good man inside you that wants to help you. I wish you good luck!

 

 

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How to Ruin Your Marriage

And the tongue is a flame of fire.

It is full of wickedness that can ruin your whole life

The tongue can be very destructive to the point of ruining your whole life, and that includes your marriage. If you want to destroy a loving relationship with your mate, let your tongue speak unchecked, setting aflame contention, conflict and misunderstanding. If you want to ruin your marriage, there is no faster way to do it than with the words of your tongue. Courtship begins with words such as "I love you." Marriage becomes a reality with words of promise. The same tongue that speaks words of love in courtship to initiate a relationship can also destroy the same relationship.

Ruin your marriage with words of criticism. A constant diet of criticism can eventually ruin any relationship. Your mate needs to know of your support. Be his/her number one supporter. Share your needs and ideas in a positive way.

Ruin your marriage with "You" messages. Understand "YOU" messages. The "YOU" message often indicates a parent-child relationship. For instance, "YOU need to cut the grass." Another one, "YOU need to clean the house." "YOU" messages normally put the other person on the defensive. When we do, the other person often withdraws from meaningful, transparent conversation. The " I " message expresses your thoughts and feelings without putting the other person on the defensive. For example, one may say, "YOU never help me." That message puts a spouse on the defensive and may create an argument. Instead, it could be put this way, "I need your help."

Ruin your marriage with words of uncontrolled anger. It's easy to speak harsh words when we are angry. An uncontrolled tongue can do great damage. Silence would be preferred at that time. Anger does need to be expressed, but in the proper way.

Ruin your marriage with words of hurtful teasing. Words of teasing may be humorous to us, but hurtful to our mate. A joke at the expense of our mate is always inappropriate. Teasing can be a cruel way of expressing anger.

Conclusion

Words are powerful. They may express your love and create intimacy. On the other hand, they may be destructive enough to destroy your marriage. The choice is yours. Kind and loving words strengthen the marriage bond. Words may encourage, compliment, and lovingly support your spouse. Words are like matches. They can light a furnace to warm your home, or they can be used carelessly to destroy the same home. Don't ruin your marriage with careless words.

Credits: Dr. Richard Trader.

Thank u so much Dr. I learn alot from you.

Guys it's your choice to build or to destroy

God bless you all.

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Week end Wishes.....

           

Nawatakia week end njema wadau wangu...msishangae hiyo picha nimetokea kuipenda nikaona niiweke kusindikiza salamu zangu!!! Muwe na week end njema.

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This Valentine , what are you getting for her?

Women love to have fun that means they love these - Jewelry, flowers , candy and an expensive meal out somewhere nice etc. Do y’all the same old same old gifts?

Mmmh, I don’t think so, you should ask or dream of new things you know , let him get a bit creative this year right?!

Some wanna-be considerate Chicks lie ,,, they say " Oh Valentines Day is no big deal " and then torture the life out of their guy if there is not some overt commercial display of " love ".. oh puleez lol.

So MEN what are you doing for your lady, anything unique?No matter what you think, your wife or girlfriend is most likely expecting some kind of gift, candy, card or flowers for Valentine's Day. Stop complaining about how it is cliché that every holiday you express your love by way of gifts... deal with it and embrace it lol! You'll be glad you did!

Here are some other gift ideas for SHE from Answers.com contributors:

                                         

Girls LOVE LOVE LOVE jewelry. I personally am old fashioned, so something like a cutesy heart necklace and a single rose is sooo romantic. If she isn't old fashioned, maybe a necklace with the initial of your first name in rhinestones. If you are really rich, something nice like a silver, gold, or even diamond necklace or bracelet. If you aren't so rich, a teddy bear with chocolates and a rose is adorable. One of my friends gave me a sterling-silver heart necklace, which was sweet. Another GREAT idea, if you are musical, is writing her a love song, or even a poem. That is a girl's romantic dream. I really agree on a rose; put it in her locker and write her a little note telling her you like her. Or buy something sweet but give or take everyone loves jewellery!

If you haven't been dating long - or even if you have - you should give her a kiss.

Since we at namywedding love weddings, we sugest that you PUT A RING ON IT, why not if not?!

You could go the old fashioned way, and get her a large heart full of candy and some beautiful red roses from the flower shop. Don't be embarrassed if you are the only one doing this;

Personally, I came here for advice, and as soon as I saw some of the ideas, i had some more. My favorite by far, though, is the flowers and chocolates. I think that my girlfriend would love that, and that's always a great idea.

Flowers are always good.

I am a girl and if my boyfriend was to get me a Valentine's Day gift I would want a giant teddy bear and it's awesome. And then buy her a locket with a picture of both of you in it, and put the locket around the teddy bear's neck + then get her one single red rose.

Another idea is to get a small box of caramel chocolates and stick it in her locker at school, and write a small love note and tape it to the inside of her locker! She will love you forever if you do that... I know I would love my boyfriend if he did that. And when she finds it, and if if you are with her, then kiss her.

It really depends on how long you have been dating her: if it's for over 2 years, a necklace - but not a cheap one. If you have only been dating for a couple of months, a flower and something personal would be fitting.

It depends on how old you are and how long you have been going out. If it has only been a couple weeks, usually a flower with a cute little message works ermm well maybe not in Nigeria ...lol. After a month or so, you should get her like a teddy bear or some flowers, and if you have been going out for 2 years I agree that a necklace is a good idea. The price of the necklace should depend on how old you are, e.g., an 20+-year-old male should spend more - if only a little - than a 16-year-old boy!)

If you have been dating for over 1.5 years maybe a piece of inexpensive jewelry or chocolate.

It depends how old you are and how close you two are and how long you've been dating. 1 year: promise ring; 5-6 months: bouquet of roses; 3-1 months: teddy bear (not a used one); 1 week: a flower and a message expressing why you chose her.

I have a girlfriend and I didn't know what to get either but I figured it out: My girlfriend likes penguins and I asked whether she prefers gold or silver. So I'm getting her a silver ring (not marriage or engagement) with a silver penguin holding a red heart. And maybe some chocolates or flowers would help too.

I think whoever wrote the 1-year promise ring answer is sadly mistaken. Honestly? You get the person you "love" a promise ring when YOU FEEL COMMITTED, and not on a specific date.

I think that if you are dating a lady that you should get her some flowers. Never buy just one flower unless it is a rose. And you should get her some chocolate; that is the right thing to do.

The General Gift ideas:

1. Flowers - go classic with red roses or exotic with orchids.

2. Candy - almost every store will be selling some sort of heart-shaped candy box for Valentine's Day.

3. Jewelry - it never disappoints.

4. Mix CD - it's personal and affordable!

5. Handwritten card - tell her how you really feel!

6. Romantic dinner - make it yourself or make reservations.

7. Scrapbook - gather all your photos and make a book of your memories together

8. "Heart attack" - cut our dozens of paper hearts and tape them all over her room, car or locker. If you want to get more creative, write a reason you love her on each heart.

9. Teddy bear - always a classic.

10. Your time - just hang out and tell her how much you love her.

11. Photography - be creative! Make a collage of photos, create a video of digital pics set to music (use her fave song), paint a picture of her, or use Microsoft Paint/Picasa to draw pictures/animals/funny scenes and then cut and paste your faces into the photos (girls love a guy with a sense of humor!

12. Perfumes always stand out for any reason and season

Do let us know what you're getting guys, we'd love to hear from you and Ladies tell us in details ..errm yess what he got for you and hopefully how he proposed.

Happy Valentines day in advance.

Lets keep love first.

source: Namywedding.com

MARRIAGE BOND

''Since they are no longer two but one, let no one separate them, for God has joined them together"

The bond of marriage is observed in the words of Jesus when he said, "... no longer two but one ..." This is a bond intended by God to unite a man and his wife not to be separated. It is the purpose of God to join a man and woman in a bond so strong that "they are no longer two but one." How does God join two persons in such a strong bond? Bonding is an important part of life. Parents are bonded with children. Friends are bonded together in a supportive relationship. Families are bonded into a supportive relationship. However, God intended that marriage should be the strongest bond of all these.

Bond of Love. Marriage is to be more than a romantic affair. The love of God is intended to be the strength of the bond. This is an unselfish, unconditional love that is experienced between a husband and wife. It's the God kind of love.

Spiritual Bond. Marriage is more than sexual union or a social relationship. It is designed by God to be a spiritual union. It is to be so strong that the two become one. The two understand each other completely. It is a transparent relationship. The husband and wife give themselves to each other unconditionally.

Covenant Bond. This is far more than a civil union. Vows are made to each other with God as their witness. It is a commitment to God and to each other. The couple ask for the blessing of God on the union.

Lifetime Bond. The couple are intended to be bonded together in such a way, that they cannot imagine life without each other. The spouse should be the person who is supportive through all of life's experiences. They stay together "through thick and thin."

Happy Birthday Majoy!!!

 So, today as I remember my Birthday date; I thank u God Almight for all de blessings u always pour in me,Special thanks to my parents especially my late daddy for everything he was doing to make sure I become who I am today (RIP daddy), to all familly members and friends for your daily support.

Lastly, a special thanks to my lovely husband to be Martin and my son Derrick for giving me the strength to overcome any challenge I face in this life, I love them alot.

Also special thanks goes to you my follower, your comment helps me to grow and make things in a better ways,God bless u all.

With love,

Majoy.

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